Lent

Today is the first day of Lent.

It is also the 21st anniversary of my dad's death.

A lot of reflecting going on.

All I know is this.  I now predicate any prayers for my father with one that goes along the lines of

Dear G-d, As you know my father was not a good parent and the only reason why I pray for him is that you have given a commandment to honor one's parents.  Please give me the ability to forgive, and if you fail at that, let the wounds heal with time.  Amen.

The wounds are slowly healing.

More postings to come.